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Guest blogger on Katie Tippett’s Blog…..
Selah. I heard this phrase a few years ago from my friend Katie. I would read her blog, listen to her in a conversation, or just in passing, and that word stuck with me. Last fall, I was in a small group, lead by Katie, and we met weekly to discus what Selah meant to us and how we could fully apply that theory to our lives.
Selah simply means Pause and Pray. During this study I felt God tugging at my heart to breath more. To pause more. To pray and give thanks more. To be with my family more. He wanted me to breathe with my family. To be a breath for my family.
All these ideas rumbling through my head, reminded me of a study from a few years back, ‘one thousand gifts’ by Ann Voskamp. Could I really breath and give thanks for 1000 things! In order to do this, I needed to be present more with my family of 4! Reminded of another study before I did, Present over Perfect, by Shauna Niequist– how can I be present all the time, not aiming to be perfect and fit in just so …… ok God I hear you!!!
For several months I struggled with and prayed to God to see what he wanted from me. To see where we wanted to lead my family. I had several conversations with Dan as well as trusted friends and mentors about aligning my love of God and Others and what that looked like.
I believed that we needed to add NO to our routine. To add NO to others so we could say yes to each other. I knew God was leading us to empower our family to say no to frivolous things. We needed to say no to things so we could say yes to each other. We needed to go against what society tells us and leave our jobs, leave our town, and just be.
Four years ago we had began on our Konmari journey (Japanese art of decluttering) and beginning to decluttering and live a more minimalistic lifestyle. This was so freeing but there was something still missing. I loved my job, my mission, my passion, my calling— but there was a huge part of our family life missing. I was pouring out and had nothing left to give our family of 4! I needed a break! I needed a reset! I needed a recharge!
Dan and I knew we needed to resign from our jobs to be together more as a family. To focus on being home with our boys. Traveling. Breathing. Being. Practicing what we preach. Love God, Love Others.
We also needed to provide more therapy for our son Kaden and there were special programs he needed and we needed to figure out how to get him there. Near the end of our jobs, we found a camp program for Kaden… applied and we’re accepted within 24 hours! We had to be there in 8 days!
Thankfully we had our Skoolie to live in and provide us lodging and transportation. A Skoolie is a school bus converted into a home. This Skoolie if ours is amazing. 250 square feet with couches, kitchen, bed, bathroom- everything we could need!
We would depart, get to this camp, and live together. All 4 of us, in 250 square feet of a renovated school bus, for 2 months in order to get our son the best treatment possible! In order to be together. To unplug from our community for 2 months to be totally immersed in each other’s lives.
This Skoolie is amazing. It’s our whole house on wheels. It’s an old school bus converted into our home. We are able to focus on the 4 of us being together. We’re growing closer and learning more and more about each other.
Click here for our tour of the Skoolie https://wildmeyers.com/2019/06/09/wildmeyers-inside-the-skoolie-tour/
What is so exciting about this adventure is that we’re allowing God to lead us. We’re stepping out on a faith journey. To some it sounds crazy, to some it is their dream, to some they totally get it. We wanted to be intentional about creating room for each other this summer. We wanted to be able to just sit and talk and play board games. We wanted to read books together and say yes to a playground for the 10th time today! (My kids love playgrounds). We wanted to be intentional with what we chose to do each day.
We no longer wanted to wake up and have the same routine each day. We needed a breather. We needed a Selah moment. This 2 months is our time away to Pause and Pray.
These little men in my life are growing up so fast. Life is way too important to be lost in the shuffle. My family is so important and I needed a breath of fresh air so I could pour that into them to continue to make them thrive!
How are you feeling? Are you in need of a Selah moment? Pause and Pray and see where God is leading you! See where He wants you to focus more on and where he wants you to say no more! This week, no RiGHT NOW— Pause and Pray!! Take a Selah moment for yourself and see where God leads!
For more from Jennifer & Dan about their #wildmeyers journey follow along at http://www.wildmeyers.com or on Instagram: @wildmeyers